1 00:00:26,250 --> 00:00:29,330 When I was 56, I went mute for 10 days. 2 00:01:13,929 --> 00:01:15,310 Hello? Hi, Marianne. 3 00:01:15,910 --> 00:01:16,910 Catherine. 4 00:01:17,030 --> 00:01:18,030 Is your dad there? 5 00:01:18,210 --> 00:01:19,770 Why? Is he there? 6 00:01:20,130 --> 00:01:21,670 No, he isn't. What's going on? 7 00:01:23,070 --> 00:01:24,450 I've just had a bit of an argument. 8 00:01:24,790 --> 00:01:26,950 I don't know where he's gone. 9 00:01:27,510 --> 00:01:30,170 You haven't heard from him? No, not since yesterday. 10 00:01:31,570 --> 00:01:35,910 I'd better go and see if I can find him. 11 00:01:37,490 --> 00:01:39,650 You're not getting any more from him, are you? 12 00:01:40,060 --> 00:01:45,540 If you think I am, of course I'll let you know. No, of course, I didn't... I'm 13 00:01:45,540 --> 00:01:46,540 just worried, that's all. 14 00:01:46,660 --> 00:01:49,080 I'm worried now. Just bring me back when you find him. 15 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,280 Of course. 16 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:52,820 Everything will be alright, that's all. 17 00:02:14,990 --> 00:02:15,990 Catherine. 18 00:02:16,350 --> 00:02:17,350 Catherine. 19 00:02:25,490 --> 00:02:30,030 Catherine, I'm sorry I hucked at you, but you've got to be at the funeral. 20 00:02:32,890 --> 00:02:34,110 Oh, God. 21 00:02:37,570 --> 00:02:39,930 Dad, Dad was trying to fix this. 22 00:02:40,330 --> 00:02:42,730 A whole situation between you and me when he died. 23 00:02:44,190 --> 00:02:45,190 You owe him. 24 00:02:46,090 --> 00:02:49,210 You don't have to worry about anything. I'll sort it all out. 25 00:02:52,770 --> 00:02:54,370 All you have to do is turn up. 26 00:02:56,210 --> 00:02:57,290 Wear something nice. 27 00:03:01,530 --> 00:03:02,530 Can you do that? 28 00:03:18,060 --> 00:03:24,040 come round tomorrow first thing and help you start to sort out Dad's stuff. 29 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,280 What do you think? 30 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:28,600 You don't want to do that on your own, do you? 31 00:06:23,630 --> 00:06:24,910 I've got some extra bin bags. 32 00:06:25,990 --> 00:06:29,570 I thought they might be a few things that need to be thrown away. 33 00:06:47,430 --> 00:06:48,450 Where do you want to start? 34 00:07:02,380 --> 00:07:06,460 How about I start clearing away those things and you make a start on his 35 00:07:06,460 --> 00:07:07,460 wardrobe? 36 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:10,440 Okay. 37 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:13,600 Okay. 38 00:08:08,100 --> 00:08:09,100 I've done everything. 39 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,220 I registered his death. 40 00:08:13,100 --> 00:08:14,540 I made all the phone calls. 41 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:20,040 Colossal phone. 42 00:08:24,460 --> 00:08:26,540 We're all going through the same thing here, Katherine. 43 00:08:34,730 --> 00:08:35,870 I haven't got time for this. 44 00:08:37,510 --> 00:08:39,390 I have tried to help you. 45 00:08:39,809 --> 00:08:42,289 I've tried to be family and this is what I get. 46 00:08:58,170 --> 00:09:03,450 Just turn up at the funeral, don't make a fuss and then you and me, this whole 47 00:09:03,450 --> 00:09:04,450 situation, 48 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:06,120 We're done. 49 00:09:06,820 --> 00:09:07,820 We're done. 50 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:41,200 Oh, dear. 51 00:16:39,660 --> 00:16:41,280 Stop! Turn around. 52 00:16:44,860 --> 00:16:45,860 Go on. 53 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:48,120 Turn around. 54 00:18:31,110 --> 00:18:32,510 Good. 55 00:19:15,170 --> 00:19:18,370 When I was 56, I went mute for 10 days. 56 00:21:12,210 --> 00:21:15,030 Lord, now you have found love. 57 00:21:15,550 --> 00:21:17,730 Now you have found forgiveness. 58 00:21:18,230 --> 00:21:21,650 Through Him, with Him, you are redeemed. 59 00:21:22,170 --> 00:21:23,690 Look at Him. 60 00:21:24,270 --> 00:21:25,930 Look at the cross. 61 00:21:26,310 --> 00:21:27,850 Look at Jesus. 62 00:21:28,610 --> 00:21:30,810 Through Him you will find love. 63 00:21:31,310 --> 00:21:33,210 Through Him you will find power. 64 00:21:33,730 --> 00:21:35,610 With Him you will go forward. 65 00:21:35,890 --> 00:21:37,630 Look at Him. 66 00:21:37,930 --> 00:21:39,150 Look at Him. 67 00:21:39,670 --> 00:21:40,710 Do not be afraid. 68 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:46,220 Don't be afraid, don't let yourself be beaten, look at yourself. 69 00:21:47,140 --> 00:21:54,060 The blessed old man ran for you, the blessed old man bought you, the blessed 70 00:21:54,060 --> 00:21:57,040 old man was given to you at Calvary. 71 00:21:57,660 --> 00:22:04,000 Look at him, take him with you, look for him in your heart and you will find 72 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,700 him. Look around you. 73 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:00,280 Okay. 74 00:34:09,070 --> 00:34:10,070 Yeah, dude. 75 00:35:07,950 --> 00:35:08,950 Do you have somewhere to go? 76 00:35:12,650 --> 00:35:13,650 Okay. 77 00:35:19,870 --> 00:35:20,870 I'm Claire. 78 00:35:28,470 --> 00:35:29,470 Do you want to come back? 79 00:35:43,980 --> 00:35:44,980 You don't have to. 80 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,840 I only live around the corner. 81 00:35:55,460 --> 00:35:56,460 Okay. 82 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,000 Shall we go? 83 00:37:08,110 --> 00:37:09,110 Hey, Kevin. 84 00:37:11,510 --> 00:37:16,490 I've just arranged to work from home all this week, so no hurry to get up. 85 00:37:19,510 --> 00:37:26,450 Is there anything else that you 86 00:37:26,450 --> 00:37:27,450 need? 87 00:37:33,890 --> 00:37:36,650 Well, sleep well. 88 00:38:25,580 --> 00:38:31,100 That's Chloe, my wife. 89 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:47,040 She died a little under a year ago. 90 00:40:12,540 --> 00:40:13,560 Do you want me to go? 91 00:40:16,780 --> 00:40:17,780 Okay. 92 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,560 Just give me a few minutes to grab your things. 93 00:40:26,340 --> 00:40:28,200 And then we can go straight back to my house. 94 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:29,960 Okay? 95 00:45:22,910 --> 00:45:24,050 Oh. Hi. 96 00:45:24,430 --> 00:45:25,348 Hi, Beth. 97 00:45:25,350 --> 00:45:26,350 You all right? 98 00:45:26,590 --> 00:45:27,590 Yeah. 99 00:45:28,370 --> 00:45:30,670 Oh, I heard about all the excitement last Sunday. 100 00:45:32,410 --> 00:45:36,030 Are you recovered from your ordeal now? Oh, she's coping okay. 101 00:45:36,330 --> 00:45:37,330 Oh. 102 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,660 Oh, is the remembrance service this Sunday? 103 00:45:54,940 --> 00:45:57,940 Yeah, 10 .30, so Chloe's mum and dad can make it. 104 00:45:58,160 --> 00:45:59,160 Oh, nice. 105 00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:01,340 Will all the family be there? 106 00:46:01,820 --> 00:46:05,560 Her brother and his family and some of her old friends from up north. 107 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:07,040 Nice. 108 00:46:15,220 --> 00:46:18,320 It'll be nice of you to have a chance to say goodbye finally, hey? 109 00:46:32,330 --> 00:46:33,830 I better be going, but I'll see you there, okay? 110 00:46:34,150 --> 00:46:35,150 Yep. 111 00:46:35,490 --> 00:46:36,930 Okay, bye. Thanks, Beth. 112 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,580 I'm just off. 113 00:48:47,660 --> 00:48:50,020 I just gave you back my lace on the floor, didn't I? 114 00:48:52,740 --> 00:48:53,740 No, 115 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:56,920 no, no need to get up. 116 00:48:57,380 --> 00:48:58,380 Finish your tea. 117 00:49:02,820 --> 00:49:06,780 And if you've got any problems, then Evan next door is very nice. 118 00:50:51,240 --> 00:50:55,940 laughing laughing laughing 119 00:50:55,940 --> 00:51:01,300 laughing laughing 120 00:51:01,300 --> 00:51:03,800 laughing 121 00:51:18,350 --> 00:51:19,350 Ha ha ha. 122 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:08,280 Clear. 123 00:53:20,860 --> 00:53:27,660 One evening, I don't know, about a year ago, I 124 00:53:27,660 --> 00:53:29,880 took a walk in the rain in the new forest. 125 00:53:32,260 --> 00:53:33,740 I came across a herd of deer. 126 00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:51,280 Twelve years ago. 127 00:53:54,740 --> 00:53:57,080 Chloe telling me she loved me for the first time. 128 00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:19,040 Closing the front door. 129 00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:21,560 When we just moved into our new house. 130 00:54:24,580 --> 00:54:26,300 Feeling so safe with him. 131 00:54:33,020 --> 00:54:35,300 Holding me for hours every night for a fortnight. 132 00:54:36,820 --> 00:54:38,360 After my last miscarriage. 133 00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:21,600 So we light this match as a symbol of Christ's presence with us. This candle 134 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,540 a light of his presence here. 135 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:31,540 And after we've lit the candle to be anointed with oil, again as a 136 00:56:31,540 --> 00:56:36,040 that Christ's presence is here. So I invite you to come, to come and to light 137 00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,520 the candle to be anointed with oil. Come as you're ready. 138 00:56:48,490 --> 00:56:52,450 In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, may we be filled with 139 00:56:52,450 --> 00:56:54,230 the light of God's peace and grace. 140 00:56:54,490 --> 00:56:55,490 Amen. 141 00:56:55,930 --> 00:57:02,930 In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, may we know that 142 00:57:02,930 --> 00:57:06,070 God's peace is grace and love for you. 143 00:57:06,310 --> 00:57:07,310 Amen. 144 00:57:11,590 --> 00:57:15,310 In the name of the Father, the Son... 145 00:57:17,710 --> 00:57:19,810 People of God's love.